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Hiring family Members as Paid Caregivers

Your loved one is aging and requires assistance with daily living. Thankfully, he or she is eligible for government assistance for a caregiver. Still, you wonder, who could possibly be trusted with the physical care, emotional dignity, and financial responsibilities of your family member?

What if they won’t understand her agitation when someone wears a green sweater, which reminds her of great-aunt Tracy?

How will she get accustomed to being served her nighttime tea, deeply steeped yet lukewarm, by a stranger?

You wish it could be one of you, a loving member of the family. Still, each of you has a job to maintain, and a family to sustain, and becoming a full-time caregiver is not a viable option.

Nothing Like Family

By now, programs in many states allow for family members to receive compensation as the caregiver of qualifying loved ones facing old age. You may no longer have to choose between salary and family.[1] 

According to the National Family Caregivers Association, over 50 million Americans provide care to family members in some way, comprising 80 percent of all home care services. The value of this care is estimated at more than $306 billion per year.

Family Member as the Hired Caregiver//The Upside

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Driving as we age

Seniors and unsafe driving

As concerned and well-meaning children, we’re faced with the difficult and unenviable position of broaching a sensitive topic with our elderly parents or loved ones. One of the hardest to navigate conversations is to convey to an older adult that it might be time to retire their Driver’s License and start looking for other means of transportation. The last thing we want to do is procrastinate and push off the important conversation for a different time.

Many signs indicate it’s no longer safe for someone to operate a vehicle, and while the signs will vary significantly from person to person, Senior Planning Services lists some common ones to look out for:

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Dealing with Dementia

Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia can be challenging for patients and caregivers alike. Learn the top strategies for dealing with dementia that can benefit both you and your loved one.

Ask Yes-or-No Questions

Instead of asking, “What would you like for lunch today?”, simplify the question into one that can be answered with a “yes” or a “no.” A question such as, “Would you like chicken and rice for lunch?” is much easier for someone with dementia to answer without becoming anxious.

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Signs It’s Time for Assisted Living

Are you among the 15 million Americans who devote their time, energy, and money to caring for an elderly loved one? You love your parent or other family member with all your heart, but there may come a time when transitioning to assisted living is best for both of you. Here are the signs to watch for that may indicate it’s time for the transition.

Difficulty Completing Basic Tasks

You do dozens of small things every day that you take for granted, from cooking and eating to cleaning the house and paying bills. If your loved one needs help doing all of these things—whether due to physical or mental limitations—a full-time caregiver may be required. This means it’s time to consider assisted living.

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Continuity of Care for SeniorsPlan a Smooth Transition from Hospital to Nursing Home

Pre-planning for a patient or family member’s move from a hospital into a skilled nursing facility (nursing home) will make the transition easier for everyone involved.

Helping the patient with worrisome financial arrangements will ease the family’s mind and placate the patient.

You may need to learn or get assistance with Medicare guidelines. For example, a patient must be admitted to a hospital and treated as an inpatient for at least three days before being transferred to a nursing home. Otherwise their initial nursing facility care will not be covered under Medicare.

Medicaid qualifications may vary state to state, but there are general guidelines to know. Eligibility for Medicaid is based on the financial income and assets of the patient. But, people who are not qualified based on their finances may be eligible for Medicaid assistance if they have high medical expenses that “spend down” their income levels. Also, if the patient has a spouse, it’s important to understand spousal protection rules.

With finances secure, you can help a patient have a safe and healthy move by providing all necessary information to the nursing home. It’s unfortunate, but depending upon the facilities involved, you may need to assist with communications between the hospital and nursing home. The most critical information to verify is that the hospital provides accurate and complete medical history and treatment records. If the proper prescriptions are not included with the patient’s transfer, they may not have immediate access to important medications. The continuity of care also includes any ongoing medical treatments that are essential to the patient’s health and comfort, such as dialysis, physical therapy, and pain management.

There is information other than medical records that is vital for a smooth transition. Confirm that the nursing home is aware of cultural needs that will affect the patient’s well-being. Medical transfer records may not include essentials such as language(s) spoken, diet restrictions, and religious practices.

Finally, decorate the patient’s new room with items from home. Family pictures, knick-knacks, and a quilt or linens will make the new surroundings comfortable and familiar.

Many agree that there is a great deal of room for improvement in the patient transition process. It certainly can be overwhelming for family caregivers to handle. If you feel unsure about the process, ask a professional.

Find out more about how Senior Planning Services can help. We provide the assistance needed for a well-planned and stress-free transition for both the patient and their family.

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Understanding Sundowning

Sundowning is the term for daily symptomatic personality changes that dementia patients experience. Sundowning occurs around the same time every day; usually at dusk. You may notice your patient or loved one experiencing some or all of these symptoms in the evening.

• Intensified confusion
• Agitation
• Pacing and wandering
• Restlessness
• Sleeplessness
• Combative behavior

Since our clocks shifted ahead an hour and the days are getting longer, your family member or patient may experience sundowning symptoms a bit later in the day, which could require a change to their caregiver’s schedule or adjustments to the patient’s evening routine.

The most important thing is that you understand that Sundowning is real, and you should treat it as you do other dementia symptoms. It’s helpful to know that there are things you can do to help minimize the patient’s symptoms.

Some theories state that mental and physical fatigue brings on sundowning symptoms. However, if a fatigued patient is treated with a familiar evening routine in peaceful and calm surroundings, they will wind down with minimum stress and be prepared for a good night sleep. To reduce sleep disturbances, encourage daytime activity and exercise, and discourage excessive daytime napping.

The right eating habits can also help reduce sundowning symptoms. Be sure to limit late day caffeine and sugar.You may even shift your patient’s eating habits by serving a larger meal earlier in the day, and prepare a lighter fare for dinner. This will make them more feel more comfortable and will help provide a more restful sleep.

As the day comes to an end, the darkness itself can cause problems for dementia patients. Increased shadows can make them unsure of what they see. This could cause agitation and fear. Be sure to turn on indoor lights as soon as daylight begins to fade. Keep a nightlight on when your patient goes to bed. If they awake during the night, they will not feel as frightened or confused if there is light in the room.

For more information on sundowning and sleep disturbances, visit the Alzheimer’s’ Association website.

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